Its oh so quiet Shh Shh

[guidofatherof5]

Signs of Fall:

Cooler daytime and nighttime temps.
Color changes in the leaves
Birds gathering in flocks
Monarchs feeding and cycling on the milk weed.
and

tomatoes that have flavor and aren't hard as a rock. Pick'em, wash'em, salt'em, and eat'em.

[Mommy2many]

Yum!

[jwolfe152]

why is it that its sooo much harder to deal with someone dying when they are your age? i had a friend that died on 08-09-13
and it was as bad as when my grandpa died as in i started crying before i even walked into the funeral home and i couldn't even get to the casket all i seen was the top of his head. hell everyday since i found out it is all i can think about. and i have not even talked to him in over a year thats what gets me, i mean we was not fighting a few things just screwed up us hanging out at least once a week.

[Stefan-A]

why is it that its sooo much harder to deal with someone dying when they are your age?

Because it's not part of the "plan". Old people are supposed to die, young people are supposed live life, get stuff done and become old before something like that can happen. It's unexpected, there's no time to prepare and it goes against everything you think you know about how a life is supposed to progress. Everything about it is wrong. And some would say that it reminds you of your own mortality and that you could be next.

Sorry for your loss.

[jwolfe152]

thanks that really makes a lot of sense to me

[Mommy2many]

I agree with Stefan. It reminds you rather abruptly of your own mortality. I am also sorry for your loss.

[guidofatherof5]

Sorry to hear about your loss. Hang in there.

[jwolfe152]

i was trying to do something to take my mind off for a little bit so i went to mow some grass i think i thought about it more while mowing lol but his wife and my friend and a few other friends stopped by for no reason but to talk, and that right there helps more than anything else besides time itself

[guidofatherof5]

i was trying to do something to take my mind off for a little bit so i went to mow some grass i think i thought about it more while mowing lol but his wife and my friend and a few other friends stopped by for no reason but to talk, and that right there helps more than anything else besides time itself

Good friends are priceless.

[jwolfe152]

yea he was a good friend we just had not talked in some time, i did see him on the street about 2 weeks ago talking on his phone and i thought about stopping to say hi but i was in a hurry to do something and thought oh i will see him again and stop next time. i really regret that i did not stop now similar thing with my grandpa i usually call at least once a day or stop by and it had been 3 days since i talked to him and i got the call. any chance i get to talk to someone i need to at least say hi how ya doing instead of well i will see them again