Who gets tired first????

[mtolypetsupply]

No, Tami, you're not a bad snake mommy! My little James, he prefers to be in his home. He'll tolerate being held, ever the gentleman, but is actually a homebody. Ernestine is the one who will give my hand a cramp from holding her, and she seems indignant that she has to go back in "that little tank". Every time I have to put her back, it's as if she says, "I thought I was finally getting my own room!!!!!"

[jitami]

No, Tami, you're not a bad snake mommy!

aw, thanks Stephi I've actually done some thinking about this lately and it's definitely a flaw on my part, tho. I've only recently began thinking that I truly do have adult add, but haven't been to the doctor to discuss it cause it really doesn't affect my life all that much. What it does effect is my ability to just concentrate on one person and give that person my full attention. I regret not figuring this out when my boys were younger. It's not like I neglected them or anything, but for example I'd be feeding them and there were still a million other things going through my head instead of just concentrating on the baby and giving him my full attention. I didn't notice this until I was sitting here, holding Frick, bored cause I couldn't use my other hand to do something. Why does my other hand have to be doing anything??? Dunno.

[infernalis]

Try having adult ADHD Tami

However, over the years I have learned to use it as a powerful tool.

Too much to discuss here, I'll pm sometime.