Happy Birthday Snakeman

[jitami]

So sorry Loren

[Loren]

Women are all crazy.You just have to find one thats good at the one thing that overshadows all the craziness.Good luck!

Well, I can put up with quite a bit, but when they leave and never come back, well, thats kinda hard to overlook.

[jitami]

That really sucks Loren... sigh... I hate people sometimes... how long were you guys together?

[Loren]

2 years dating, almost 1 year engaged, almost 5 married. About 8 total then.

[jitami]

Ouch.... just know that if someone runs out like that(and you weren't beating her ) then the problem definitely lays with her and not you. You know normal, rational, GOOD people don't treat others that way, especially people they've spent years of their life with. I'm sure you have a few things to work on... we all do... concentrate on yourself for a while and just see what happens. (((hugs))) Can't say I've been there, but I've been darned close and it sucks way more than words could ever convey.

[Loren]

Thanks Tami. And without getting into details on an open forum like this, let me just say, no abuse or cheating accured.

[jitami]

Yeah, I had a feeling not, but you never know I guess... just know that there will be a time when all of this won't be so painful and you will be truly happy with your life and those who you chose to share it with... hang in there...

[Loren]

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