Lori, Thanks for your concern. Being a law enforcement officer I am well aware of the trouble signs that lead to that sort of life. My Lucky and I have good communication. I don't think she is that kind of snake. I've also warned her that "I'll bust a cap" on anyone who messes with her. "2 to the head and 1 to the chest". I think having good communication is essential in a loving relationship. Don't you?