James, why do you insist on using the correct names of new comers? I find it offense and I'm so glad you did not use mine.

If these people wanted to acknowledge who they are, I'd think they'd register with their given names. I, for one - because of my history and personal life - would rather not banter my given or usual name about.

Just because you know it doesn't mean you've been given permission to use it. So why do you continue to do so? I think you're taking advantage of your position.

Do you ask people first if you can address them by their given names, or would they rather you use their 'handle'?