Just for the record Chantel, I didn't mean to say that they aren't doing what you say they're doing. it's only peoples interpretation as to the "why" they're doing it, and the perception of emotions from them that I question.

Even if I don't believe they "Love" us, it sure as heck doesn't take away from the way I feel about them, or take away from my ability to enjoy having them. They certainly bring us great joy, even if they don't do so intentionally.