It takes a lot of patience, they will get used to you on their own time. If I were you, I'd use the tweezers with the food on them and hold them there until she comes out. I had to do that sometimes with Squirt. It took about 5 minutes. Maybe if she doesn't take it when you do that, after 5 minutes then put it in a dish and try again the next day, it might help her get used to you being around when she's eating.